I am having the same issue!
Yesterday, some (but not all) points and all polygons went grey in Web App Builder and the published Web App. As suggested in a help post, I republished all layers from ArcGIS Pro, being careful to select Share As a Web Layer/Configuration/Configure Parameters/and check the box "Use symbol types compatible with all clients." Despite this considerable effort, Web App Builder will not remember symbology settings.
Symbology is stable in ArcGIS Pro 3.1.2 and the AGOL Web Map, but once it goes into the Web App Builder, all polygons turn grey.
Esri, please help!