It's difficult for us to know which version you should use without more information:
Which version of ArcGIS are you using?
Which version of ArcSDE are you using?
Which flavor of ArcSDE are you using? If you are using Enterprise ArcSDE, what is the application
word size you are using? (Workgroup and Personal will only be 32-bit at 10.0.)
You really ought not try to superceed the Express that's installed with Personal or Workgroup editions
of ArcSDE -- they are tightly coupled to the Personal/Workgroup ArcSDE that deploys them.
- V